44 yr old, single, white, male, strait, and mostly submissive but do switch from time to time. I have been in and around the local kink community for several years, and have done fabrication of metal equipment for some of the clubs in both Edmonton, and Calgary. I am a small business owner, and hobby farmer. I am a few months out of a relationship, and thought it would be nice to get under another's control again. My main kinks are tease and denial/mid to long term chastity play. I have a fully equipped dungeon, complete with closets full of fetish wear. If you like corsets, after a bulk auction buy, I now own over 100 tight lacing corsets, and 1950's style lingerie (girdles, all-in-one's, bullet bra's, etc.). I am looking for a woman who knows and likes being a woman, but loves being in charge. I do prefer Caucasian, but not a deal breaker, Not too much extra weight as I am a high energy person who is always involved in one event or project at any time (I always make time for the one who owns me). Outside the home, I will not be wearing visible fetish gear, and you wont have me on a leash, but at home it is your choice of what I wear, what I do/don't do, and when.
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Minha Pessoa Ideal:
My ideal match would include a lady that can separate kink from life, and can step out in public walking side by side with me not feeling the need to have a collar and leash on me as I crawl behind. The flip side of that being in the bedroom where she is always in control. To emphasize that control, I would be stepping out in public with my Carrara chastity belt securely locked in place, and the key in her possession. The most important part of any relationship has to be how well we get along outside the bedroom. If you cant stand to talk with me (or vise versa), then what happens in bed is going to be a moot point as there is no hope of us surviving each other in the long run. I am here to find that one lady I crave to be around now, and 50 years from now. Not the other 99.9% with a beautiful exterior, but dread having to talk to her. I tried that when I was younger, now looking for more substance to hold the relationship together.
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