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[p]I manifest the dynamic of control/surrender at a deeper level, as a polarization of equality, balance, and wholeness of being. One cannot truly control another, but can only master control of one's self -- action, thought, identity, feeling. One cannot truly surrender to another until surrendering to one's self, the truth of deepest heart and spirit. Both surrender and control are invoked by free choice from self will beyond the mind.[/p]
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[p]The feminine archetype is of energy, feeling, time, light, evolution... The masculine archetype is of presence, awareness, foundation, support, a reflector of light, path of change... The healthy relationship between the two is in their balance. It is like a river and a riverbed, or water and a bowl. A surplus or a deficit, abundance or scarcity -- of either -- results in dissonant rather than harmonious resonance. E.g., romantic love without sex is dry, and sex without passionate love is cold. A greater masculine presence can support a greater feminine energy. This is physically manifest with a masculine riverbed & dam on a feminine river. The water conforms to the banks of the valley or canyon & dam. The deeper the canyon and bigger the dam, the more water is accumulated, and the more hydroelectric energy can be generated. Too small a dam overflows and bursts; too little water dries the reservoir and reduce or halts power generation. The art of BDSM is in sharing partnership with a greater complementary polarity, to enable greater manifestation of one's own polarity.[/p]
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[p] If you can observe what you are thinking, and observe what you are feeling, then that is your witness-self of deeper awareness. Awareness is inner observation, beyond which there is no deeper observer. It is found through stillness of the mind, balance of the heart, and transparency of the ego.[/p]
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[p]Every person is different. One's natural balance can be different at many internal levels -- along the continuum between the polarities of control and surrender. BDSM labels tend to be a disservice in finding one's inherent balance points.[/p]
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[p]Control is mastery over one's self. It is an aspect of deep inner awareness and presence, as the masculine archetype in tantrika. It is not inner repression or denial, but is awareness which affects the freedom to intimately share one's heartspace. Control is not oppressively imposed over another, as for lack of self control, or as the sequalae of narcissism.[/p]
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[p]Fulfillment arises from the only place it is ever experienced -- one's very own heart. It is neither given nor taken in a bargain, but only grows with sharing, as a story grows with its telling. A physical connection without deeper intimacy is to evade the beauty of our true source of love within.[/p]
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[p]Fulfillment is the essence of love. It is a singularity of light, not a duality of light and dark. A shadow does not exist independent of light. The nature of the universe is light. Looking at the darkest part of the night sky, through the eye of a needle (or .65mm hole at 1m) one sees over 100 quadrillion stars. If one's eyes were sufficiently sensitive, the night sky would appear completely filled with light. Similarly is our heart filled with love. All we need to do is get out of the way of our self, and look within to see what is always there. If we did not already know fulfillment at the deepest level of our self, then how could we recognize it when we feel it? [/p]
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[p]Surrender is by continuous free choice from self will. It is an aspect of deep inner energy and light, as the feminine archetype in tantrika. It is not passivity or a bargain of giving to get fulfillment. Ultimate surrender is of the false ego association that fulfillment arises from an external object, upon which the inner feeling is dependent. With a transparent ego, the ever-present light of one's fulfillment and love can shine forth, in intimate heartspace with another. The choice to share self-surrender and deference or service can be inspired by respect and honor for another's self control, awareness, presence, inner strength, personal excellence, and capacity for sharing open hearted intimacy.[/p]
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[p]The term "power exchange" is a BDSM oxymoron. Personal power can never be relinquished, or exchanged in a bargain of giving to get fulfillment or love. Person S can only delegate the authority for person M to exercise M's own personal power on behalf of S. It follows the legal concept of principal and agent. [U]The exercise of power without authority is abuse.[/U][/p]
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[p]The edge which you choose to reach is the precipice not of physical limitation -- but of peaceful observation, passionate fire, and sacred transcendence to your inner spirit. [/p]
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[p]A sensual naked body is sexy, but an intimate naked heart is sexier. The greatest erogenous zone is the heart, not the mind, both comprising different parts of the brain.[/p]
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[p]Drug free. Non-smoker. Lacto-vegetarian. 40+ years experience in tantrika and ashtanga yoga.[/p]
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Meine ideale Person:
You have read this far, have genuine intention, and may communicate with me on my blog here at ALT A private place to express yourself; or -- ALDOMPDX -- at FET LIFE or FET STER or COLLAR SPACE. This is essentially a test, to filter out scammers and insincere people, while retaining anonymous communication until mutual consent is made.
You are any person who seeks a master with a strong spiritual emphasis, background, and experience. You yearn to learn what exists within, or otherwise seek enhanced depth of experience. This is essential to your being, 24/7 not just a 1 hour role play.
You may seek training, to develop your core character into the purest manifestation of the "role" you fulfill. As a sub/slave, you yearn to have your character molded into the humble, caring, serving, giver of yourself and receiver of myself that you know is at the core of your soul. You are not a mere passive object or mindless drone, and you may be particularly interested in inward surrender to support your desire to delegate authority.
You desire to know how aware interaction with me requires -- emotional feeling, not physical ritual; self acceptance, not self sublimation; self respect, not invited abuse; self honesty, not bargaining or competing; inner caring beauty, not external vanity; innocence, not embarrassment; duty of choice, not victim of trap; generosity, not suffering; humility, not humiliation; released inhibition, not conceptual limitation; transcended consciousness, not pain endurance; conscientious awareness, not mindless obedience; inner love, not external identification.
Only a vegan or lacto-vegetarian person, or one who commits to living that way, will be considered.
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