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I have been and still occasionally a Pro Domme and there for dominant and love it, professionally. And in that context find it hot on all levels...however......... Personally, my core is deeply submissive.
To extend the identity discussion, I do not id as slave ..... I definitely am also a pony although I rarely have an opportunity to enjoy that space. I seek connection and domination must come from connection and a brilliant mind that can take the time to understand how draw me into longing to go where I will please the most.
I guess, that is my way of saying, please don't feel that you can start commanding me because you are
a domme and I am sub....I keep what is mine and give it where I feel it will be valued and in that when I give it...my desire to please is overwhelming. I guess I am saying. Be patient, be sure we have connection as adult equals and then, if we agree on that...take me down and bring me to you.
I really am not looking for play dates only but if I find that there is a connection that can exist in that place without my needing more I would be open, I just am pretty sure I am not wired that way. On the other hand, monogamy is not necessarily my ideal..or not my ideal...I think there are a million permutations.
I will say that more than bi my core identity is queer femme but I realize that is confusing to men..they ask what I am doing seeking a man. It is because I discovered that the kink dynamic supercedes gender, for me.
My other interests. I have a masters from uc berkeley in social work. I may return to some aspect of it soon. We will see. I love the water everything under, on, in, or around water.
I meditate daily.
I love to dance, ballroom, two step, all kinds and up for learning more and different kinds.
what else. I have found that the key to new experiences is saying no that's not my thing, I would never do that....lol
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我的理想對象:
A smart even brilliant mind, doesn't take themselves or life too seriously and yet very serious about doing it all well. Killer sense of humor,insightful, a true listener since I find all great dominants are skilled listeners. A clear communicator. Laid back, hot, sexy, and that can look so many many different ways. I have an aversion to facial hair which for some reason seems in high vogue among the male kink community. Doesn't work for me for whatever reasons. If you have a boat you would pretty much own me...lol.
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