Mi persona ideal:
In truth, what I am looking for is more properly defined by WHO I am looking for. I want a Dom or Master Who is intelligent, witty, and believes in excellence (knowing perfection is an illusion). He must be Someone I feel I can look up to and trust to make better decisions than I can, Who has learned to control self and therefore is worthy to control me. I've put it this way - I want a King worthy of a prostrate queen, Who will help push me to be my best self. I have had to spend most of my life protecting my girl, my submissive self, because I was with someone who was not a King, a true Dom/Master, and I had to be the strong one, the decision maker, the disciplined one - I want to be able to be my true self. So yes, I have very high standards & expectations. And I don't apologize for it. As heartbreaking as the thought is, I would rather be alone than settle. I still believe the fairytale exists (even if it is Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty version).