Mi persona ideal:
first and foremost He has to actually love His little girl. In my opinion…You never need to engage in age play. i am not a 40+ year old woman playing a 5 year old in a role play or a scene...i do not play with blocks or color in coloring books… i all woman… However a true Daddy creates that feeling in me…you know that feeling… when you first fell in love…that first puppy love…when you were a teenager and you thought the world revolved around Him…that the world would end if He were not there…that feeling of being cherished, nurtured and desired for exactly who you were…not having to pretend… He should have the ability to make me feel like that girl again…The feeling that i am His prized possession…He is not afraid to show me off to the world…Show off the woman He has helped to emerge...allowing me to feel beautiful, loved, desired and cherished while still feeling safe and having the freedom to be all that i am without fear of rejection.

His eyes should always light up when i walk into the room…He takes great pride in my successes… After all...He helped to create me…He sees it as His job to protect me…from the outside world but most importantly myself… He always loves to cause me great pain in a sensual manner because He knows i need it (even though i might not realize it), but He hates to see me hurt emotionally. Pain/pleasure is one thing but pain and hurt in life is another. i am safe in His arms because He takes the time to know me…everything about me…reads my responses to Him…pays attention to the little things about me…and yet…even with my whining…He still loves me and continuously pushes me…making me uncomfortable...pushing me past my comfort level...challenging me...

He is the center of my universe. He wants to be able to provide for my every need and care. More than that He wants to be able to shape and mold me to the image He thinks i should become. He sees in me someone who, in His mind, can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in me than i believe in myself…all He wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of me, the image He has created. This can only be achieved through love…discipline and respect from both sides…He shows His strength in his ability to shape me to His needs and desires. He becomes my confidant, my shoulder, and most importantly my anchor. It takes strength to let me out into the world when all He wants to do is hold me safe in His arms.

My Daddy knows the value of discipline, though at times His soft heart gets the best of Him. He knows that in order for His little girl to be the best she can possibly be He must stand firm…to show who is in control of the relationship…He uses His experience in life and His knowledge of me to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises. He knows this hurts me, and that tears at His heart, but He also knows it is for my own good.

When i go to Him… i know that this man knows all of my dirty little secrets and it doesn't matter…to Him i am always beautiful. He accepts every part of me and works to emphasize the good while improving the bad…It is this love that allows Him to train me. He could not invest so much of Himself in someone He did not love completely.

I feel that a Daddy must feel great pride in His possession. He needs to know i can hold my own and still choose to submit to Him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift that has been given to Him and takes great pains to increase the value of the relationship…It is extremely important to Him to know i can be with any man and yet i choose to be with Him.

Where oh where is this man?