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jow  
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: September 22, 1997

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   May 3, 1969
(54 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Oceanside, California, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Some college
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Green
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   Prefer not to say
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Conservative
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Facial Hair: None
Body Hair: Little
Body Decorations : None
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/
Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Yes
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: No
Want Children : Maybe
Occupation: Professional
Religion: Prefer not to say

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54 year old Man in Oceanside, California, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for jow
Short term only I am 39 y/o wm, 68", 175 lb. brwn hair and green eyes. Love seeing a sub down the path of their fantasies. No BS here I'm looking for an eventual long term relationship with a sub/slave I can call my own. I've been around this block for over 16 years now, and I don't suffer fools lightly. To me everything starts in the mind. If you can't make a sub feel submissive, it doesn't matter how much money you spent on equipment you may as well quit. While I expect my partner to be serious about her submissiveness, I believe the Dom carries a heavy burden of responsibility of caring for, protecting, and nurturing his sub to be what he expects. I've always been bothered with the word "play". To me one is sub/Dom/switch/vanilla and to play or pretend to be something you are not lessens the appeal. You may be able to get some of the motions right, but you both know it's still just an act. I've been in positions of authority practically all my life, and I find comfort with the responsibility. While I have embraced BDSM as a part of who I am I understand the difference between reality and fantasy. Reality is a mother fucker. Like or not at some point you have to talk with each other about something besides sex, unless all you are out for is a one night stand. I am a gentleman and a sadist, a giver and a taker, compassionate and demanding, I can give pleasure and pain equally. Don't try to pigeon hole me because it just won't work. In short I'm looking for someone unique, a lady with the desire to be treated like a slut. One who is equally comfortable in polite company as she is kneeling at my side. One who is intelligent and can take care of herself, but desires to give up that control to another and to be used, punished, and controlled. Safe and sane but demanding. I look forward to hearing from you. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
sub fem 21-40, must love being submissive with a bent toward a possible 24/7 relationship. Must enjoy some or all of the of the topics outlined in my interests section. I expect my subs to be obedient and serious about exploring the darker side of themselves. I take my role very seriously. Is this you?


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