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[B]Dec 2011 Update[/B]
I'm back after a long break from alt. After spending virtually my entire adult life only fantasizing about what I truly seek, I now find myself with a genuine opportunity to find it for real. I also know it will take time and effort. Like all good relationships, BDSM relationships require patience to build trust and understanding. I am, therefore, committed to being open and earnest about myself, and about what I seek in you. If there are any unanswered questions after reading this profile, please don't hesitate to ask.
[B]About Myself[/B]
I had been a BDSM lifestyle enthusiast throughout my entire adult life. Most who know me in my public life would likely be very surprised I have any interest in the lifestyle at all. I'm quite a normal guy living a very normal life.
I regard myself as a very casual, relaxed individual. I am an intelligent, well-educated, successful white collar professional. The most important personality traits you can expect from me are openness, respect, safety-consciousness, and a sense of humor.
I am extremely open minded to all aspects of the lifestyle, but my #1 focus is bondage-sexy, sensual, intricate, stringent, and SAFE bondage.
I am also open to all cultures, religions, sexual orientations, etc. We all have something positive to offer. And all women of all cultures and religions have one important thing in common: none of you will be able to escape my ropes.
[B]About my Fantasies[/B]
Some time ago a lifestyle friend asked me to define my true thoughts on my passion for bondage. To this day I believe the answer to her is still the best representation of my thoughts:
To me, bondage is not a perverted, deviant form of pornography or sexual abuse. It is not a means of demeaning, degrading or physically harming women. It is an exquisite, highly complex, erotic form of art. Conventional forms of art typically begin with some medium which in itself has some intrinsic, raw beauty. The artist then captures and accentuates it's beauty through creativity, passion, and dedication to his work. One may start with a block of wood or marble, precious stone, the ceiling of a chapel, or a painter's canvas. The art of bondage also begins with its own form of canvas. And in this kinster's opinion, it's the single-most exquisite canvas that has ever existed - the soft, smooth, sumptuous body of a woman. The careful, well-planned, creative addition of ropes and restraints then ultimately transforms her into a visually brilliant work of art.
With respect to other lifestyle fetishes, I do have a wide variety of interests. But here's the best way I can them in perspective. Imagine all the various BDSM fetishes were a food item spread out on a big buffet table. For me, bondage is always the main course. Everything else is a side dish. I do like a good baked potato, but it's not as appetizing to me unless it's nestled next to a nice juicy steak. You get the idea...
I do not post face pics publicly but can provide them if requested. Although I’m not a GQ model (they're not returning my phone calls), women who have seen my pics haven't lodged any complaints either.
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我的理想對象:
I'm looking for a sweet, sincere female sub who shares the strong passion for bondage and discipline that I do. I will certainly consider subs of all levels of experience, but I seem to have made something of a hobby of playing teacher/mentor role for newbies trying to gain experience and acceptance of their submissive side. And I have the necessary patience and understanding that comes with age.
You don't need to be a goddess (no I will not turn you down if you are), but physical appearance is important to me. You do need to be in reasonably good physical health (I may seem tame and gentle but…my ropes are TIGHT. You need to be able to handle that). I require a meeting at first to get to know you, and to find out if you’re going to laugh at any of my jokes. Even if you think they aren’t funny, fake it. Orgasms? You won’t need to fake those.
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