I have a dominant agressive personality - doesn't mean I'm cruel but it does mean I am in charge. I like receiving a little pain, I used to live with a vanilla who was squeamish at best so guess who didn't get her pain fix. It's not mandatory but it would be a very nice change. Talk to me before I go crazy. I'm still fairly new at this alternative lifestyle. I want to find a good subby - he or she doesn't have to have a lot of experience either, cold be a great learning process for the both of us, finding our boundaries, likes, dislikes, needs, cravings, etc.
Now - outside of this kinky world that I love to play in - I like to read, garden, I live to cook, try new wines, listen to good music, swim down the river, play in the snow, watch anime and good movies, practice martial arts (just getting back into it after an injury), and I am a closet writer (gasp). Tell me what you like too - let me know there's something upstairs besides a drooling sex monster (which is a great start though).
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My Ideal Person:
I need someone who has a good head on their shoulders - you don't have to be sane (goodness knows I'm not) but know what you want, be able to talk about it. Believe me - I want to hear about it. I would love a man who can act like a girlfriend. A human pet (male or female) would be perfect - I'm very tactile so they must want to be rubbed, petted, scratched, bitten/nipped, tweaked, stroked constantly.
I think, at least in part, some of my fascination for subs is a result of loving anime - I also have a fascination for beautiful men and can appreciate them very much. On the male side of androgynous. I'm Amerasian myself and I have found most Amerasian men have a tendency to be androgynous. I think most Amerasian women are either very subby or very DOMINANT.
I also have an art project in mind that invloves cbt/transformation using ropes. Model for this project doesn't have to be interested in having a relationship with me, but it definitely wouldn't hurt.
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