My Ideal Person:
I'm still not sure if this ALT life is for me. I just don't know if I'm an ALT girl in a vanilla world or a vanilla girl in an ALT world. I'm probably some hybrid of the two.

I’m leaning more and more against wanting a Dom; because, despite my natural submissive demeanor, I really think that I’d rather have a boyfriend than a Dom. So far, with all of the Doms I’ve met, the relationships have all been somewhat one-sided. I need more equality, more reciprocity, than that. So, instead of looking for a Dom, I think I’m better off just finding a boyfriend with a little kink and an extremely high libido.

And while I may not be sure what it is I do want, I do know some things I definitely do not want. I don’t want:

1. Young boys under 30-35. I apologize, but I’m just not attracted to young men.

2. Submissive or switch men. Again, I apologize. But I need a strong, dominant man.

3. Having said the above, if you’re into S & M, please do not bother. I am so not into that scene - at all.
And I have a low tolerance for either pain or humiliation.

4. Lesbians or bi-curious women. I’d love to go shopping with you or go to the spa … but I have no interest or curiosity in anything other than platonic female friendships. And if there are any guys out there who think you can change my mind on this and introduce another woman into a threesome with me, let me tell you now that you can’t. And I will not appreciate you trying.

5. The above statement, obviously, would include any couples looking for a girl to join/serve them.

6. Married men. I’m probably too Catholic, but I won’t get involved with someone already in a committed relationship. I have no desire to be “the other woman.” I do look at profiles before I reply to emails/winks/network invitations, so if your profile is either silent on this issue or you’ve said that you “Prefer Not To say,” I am going to assume that you are married and will delete your message without a reply.

7. Lastly, I’ll consider all profiles that have not been completed enough to allow a reasonable person to get an idea of who you are and what you’re looking for, and/or studded with too many “Prefer Not To Say” responses as either spam or insincere and these messages will be deleted without a reply.

I know that this all ‘sounds’ bitchy, but I’m just being honest. I do not believe in leading people on or in playing head games. I prefer to be candid in my relationships. If you’re someone that falls into one of the above listed categories, and you’re looking for a friendship outside of a sexual/romantic one, let’s talk.