43 year old artist/writer living in ft myers florida. I have over 11 years experience in BDSM and am skilled in a variety of toys and methods and such but. . .I don't think that is all that important in the end. A lot of people seem hung up on what skill sets they have but I tend to view things more fluidly. . .every partner is different and thus the skill set that works with one is not so important with another.
I view life in a different way I guess. It's about creativity and reading the submissive. About being able to catch the signals to know what really gets into their head to know where to take them. I have been a Daddy to Baby Girls, A Master to a slaves, and a Dom to a play subs . . .I don't like pigeon holing anyone, including myself, into one title or classifacation. The dynamics are always different and it's the ability to flow with them and control them that makes a dominant a good partner. The ability to see what the sub needs, not just what they want.
I do tend to be sexual in my play. It's just how I enjoy it so if that's a problem, You prob don't want to contact me. I don't like to eat an apple. . .I like to devour it. . . consume it. . .savour every aspect of it and have the juices dripping down my chin after.
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My Ideal Person:
I believe life will bring you what you are ready to have. The universe shows you the way, but you have to be open to seeing it.
I love helping new people explore. . .I can re-experience the newness and excitment that way. For me it's a lot of fun to see the new sensations, ideas, experiences all rushing in the head of a new submissive.
Just be open minded and looking to explore yourself and not stepping up with a list of do's and don'ts and have to's and have to have's. In the end, the dynamic between two people will define all those things without having to demand them.
Check out my blog [blog ftmyersartist] for more bits and pieces of me and writing and artwork.
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